Loving someone means trying to really understand them so that you can accept them for who they are and care about that person (not the person you imagine them to be).
Listen to what they say. Pay attention to what they show you about themselves.
Too often, people turn away when their partners bring up thoughts or concerns that they don’t relate to, care about, or want to deal with.
They respond to the content of the conversation without understanding that they are also giving a message about their partner or their relationship.
Dismissive responses send the message that they don’t care about how you feel.
Caring is essential in any close relationship, its importance is frequently lost in the activity of our lives. To care about his/ her feeling doesn't necessarily means you have to give expensive gift.
To understand what are the things that could make he/ she feels insecure; for me is so much more.